In the April 2014 General Conference, Elder Uchdorf taught:
Sooner or later, I believe that all of us experience times when the very fabric of our world tears at the seams, leaving us feeling alone, frustrated, and adrift.
It might sound contrary to the wisdom of the world to suggest that one who is burdened with sorrow should give thanks to God. But those who set aside the bottle of bitterness and life instead the goblet of gratitude can find a purifying drink of healing, peace and understanding.
He concluded his talk with this inspired directive:
Could I suggest that we see gratitude as a disposition, a way of life that stands independent of our current situation? In other words, I am suggesting that instead of being thankful for things, we focus on being thankful in our circumstances-whatever they may be.
We sometimes think that being grateful is what we do after our problems are solved, but how terribly shortsighted that is. How much of life do we miss by waiting to see the rainbow before thanking God that there is rain?
The storms in our lives right now may appear to be constant and heavy. As a mother, I not only worry about my personal storms, but also the storms facing my children. I worry about my neighbors, friends and extended family. It is even hard to read the news because it makes my heart hurt for the heaviness that seems to be all around.
However, as we remember the Savior and to be grateful and recognize all the good that is surrounding us individually and as families, a change of heart will come upon us. The gratitude we feel will overcome the storms of our lives and the despair that we so often feel.
Doctrine and Covenants 123:17 says, “Therefore, dearly beloved brethren, let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his arm to be revealed.”
I testify that as we focus on the good, express gratitude for the blessings He pours out upon us, and cheerfully do our best, our burdens will be lightened and we will feel and be blessed with His love.
Kathleen Nash, Relief Society Second Counselor